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Wednesday, August 26, 2009

So I was surfing in office again (but during lunch hour this time) and I came across the following (you will need to double click to view the whole image) in stomp.com.sg ... if you follow my recent posts, I mentioned that I cannot blog at home due to some technical issues with my laptop.

Some of the articles and stories are really funny, or I should say most if them. Do visit the website if you need a laugh!

And so anyway, I saw something which gives me some inspiration to blog.
The image seems to be quite blur as I did a print screen and pasted on MSpaint.
Double click on the image to view the full image

It is the results of the poll titled: What is most attractive in a woman?

Looks, Character or Intelligence.

The survey shows that most people chose Looks over Character and Intelligence being the last.

Goes to show how realistic people are.
And then I started to think. It's kind of "unfair treatment" to people who are born not as nice as the society may accept. People judge them by their looks, or first impression being the most important.

I know there's a chinese saying "There's no ugly woman, only lazy woman in this world". However, in my own opinion, if say a person do not have good features, no matter how much she/he dolls herself/himself up, they will still not look as good as one who has good features and without heavy make up. Don't you agree? Unless they undergo plastic surgery which I personally find it hard to accept (even though the society may deem acceptable)

Hence, I feel that looks shouldn't be the top priority as this is something that is inborn, which we cannot change. Of course, we are lucky if we are born to look nice/pleasant, but if we are not, we shouldn't be condemned.

I feel that one's character is more important. Some people may not be good looking but they have a kind heart. I especially dislike and will not approach those who thinks they are so pretty and they feel they do not need friends (since they are so good looking) and due to this fact, alot of people will want to befriend them, therefore they behave so stuck up and arrogant.

Who doesn't like to take a second look at beautiful things? To be honest, I like to befriend good looking people because I can learn from them. For instance, sharing their make up tips, latest fashion trends etc... But I admire those who are good looking yet friendly and humble. These are the people whom I truly admire.

Lastly, as the polling shows that intelligence is the least important among the 3 qualities.
Omg... I just realised I have wasted 20k on my degree. LOL. Just kidding.
Being intelligent is not just about the qualifications. It's about the experience you have, the combination of IQ and EQ.

In conclusion, I reckon that guys will prefer gals who are good looking with a good character, and no need to be too smart. (if not, they will feel inferior and soon their money will be cheated by girls... HAHAHA)

But then again, no one is perfect! So just be contented and go by your feelings~~~~ GENG1 ZHE4 GAN3 JUE2 ZHOU3
Otherwise, continue to dream bah. LOL.

As a woman myself, I feel that we girls, think deeper than guys in many aspects in life.

ATTENTION: Can someone help to repair my laptop and I will pay for that. I am totally clueless on what's happening to my blogspot when I use my laptop. I know many of my friends ask me to do a computer scan, scan for viruses, update this and that but still it wouldn't work. I am getting quite fed up over this and when I start my new job, I am sure they won't allow me to blog in office! (Or I should say I wouldn't have time for that)

I am a computer idiot yet refuses to send to SONY to repair. I just don't feel safe leaving my new laptop in their hands.

PLS HELP!!! Quote me a price... reasonable price. Anyone?

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