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Friday, August 15, 2008

I just had a friendly conversation with one of my friend on relationships. Recently, one of my best friend had broken up with her boyfriend because he did what he shouldn't outside and just recently, i have a fren who said the same thing to me which leads me to a feeling that, all guys are the same.

However, this friend of mine changed my mindset completely and what he said are really very meaningful. If one is single, it's justifiable but when one is attached, it's different. It's how these people cope with guilt. Yes, who can tolerate this kind of behaviour. Trust is important as we cannot possibly monitor 24/7. Nobody is perfect, but consicence must be clear. We all have choices and it's up to us on how we want to choose our path. There's no need to spite one another as i think it's a waste of time and it's stupid.

Some people may have the mentality that they will feel bored with the same girl. But it's how we enjoy our sex life. To do with the person we love is different because the chemistry is there. With others, it's purely a trade. I don't think there's enjoyable. When it's over, that's it.

We must always think of what we want and the consequence of the things we do. Not only in the short run, but in the long run.

For me, it's definitely intolerable. If i can stay faithful, why not him?
To my dearest friend, you have made the right choice. Just be happy and enjoy life.
I will always be there for you. 朋友不必太多，知音者几位就够了

自古多情空于恨，自恨绵绵无缺期

人与畜牲的分别是，我们可以控制我们的 desire,畜牲不能

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